Divorce remains a taboo subject in many Asian countries, where couples who decide to separate often face harsh judgment and shaming from society. This stigma is particularly severe for women, who are frequently blamed for speaking up and leaving abusive marriages. Recently, a Pakistani woman residing in the United States decided to challenge these stereotypes by throwing a party to celebrate her divorce.
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In a viral video, the woman is seen joyfully dancing to Bollywood songs in a vibrant purple lehenga, as the audience around her cheers and hoots. The backdrop features balloons spelling out "Divorce Mubarak," enhancing the festive atmosphere.
The video was shared by a Facebook page with the caption: "If all this continues in our country, the idea of marriage will end one day."
While many viewers acknowledged the importance of escaping toxic relationships, the celebratory nature of the video ignited a heated debate. Numerous people in Pakistan criticized the woman and expressed their disapproval in the comment section.
One user commented, "Divorce should not be celebrated at all. Yes, it frees you from a toxic relationship. Yes, it liberates you from a narcissist. Yes, it is good for your mental health. Yes, you can heal from the trauma. If we start celebrating divorce, people will be afraid to get married. The number of proud single mothers is already on the rise. Absent fathers for children is trauma."
Another wrote, "Call me judgmental or whatever but I can't believe my eyes, this woman is dancing and throwing a divorce party saying 'DIVORCE MUBARAK'??? FR??? What is going on with this planet."
Despite the criticism, some defended the woman, applauding her for prioritizing her happiness and standing up for herself. "Girl, I’m over here crying happy tears for you. Everything life has to offer is yours… Keep shining hard, you deserve this," commented one supporter.
The woman, who owns a store in America, has not disclosed the reasons for her divorce. Nonetheless, her bold celebration has brought to light the ongoing cultural clash between traditional views on marriage and evolving perspectives on personal freedom and happiness.
