The 'real reason' behind Armaan Kohli-Tanishaa Mukerji break-up

Armaan Kohli recently tweeted about the end of his relationship with Tanishaa saying, "Guys love you all, it's been hard but it's the truth, nothing is worth being unhappy, there is no tan man, wish happiness to all." In response to Armaan's message, Tanishaa tweeted a self help message which read, "There will be times in your life when you have to choose between being loved and being respected. Always pick being respected, that love without respect was always fleeting – but that respect could grow into real, lasting love." Are we to assume that the real reason behind their break-up was disrespect? Did Armaan disrespect Tanishaa? Frankly, we had already seen hints of this in the Bigg Boss house last season. What we can't understand is why it took Tanishaa so long to figure this out. We are sure it must be difficult and heartbreaking to move on, but seems like she is coping by inducing some laughter in her life; at least that's what her tweets indicate.